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Thursday, January 29, 2009

Today, we went for our first post-natal checkup, all by ourselves (without confinement aunti).
The visit to gynae is smooth and swift. Though there is a queue waiting to see Dr Wong, we were given priority as we have a newborn baby with us. However, we do need to pay $85 for the visit as this post-natal checkup is not part of the package that we had signed up with the clinic.
But the appointment with Evelyn's paediatrian Dr Ong's was very upsetting. Firstly, the clinic was very crowded when we reached. The nurse has reassured us that priority will be given to newborns, and told us to wait in the nursing room. After half an hour, its still not our turn. We asked the nurse, and her response was "What? Havent you see the doctor yet?" Just to be safe, we decided to wait in the main waiting area, so that we will not be forgotten again.
As Evelyn has jaundice, she needed a blood test to determine the level of bilirubin. We were told that result will be available soon after lunch. If the result exceeded an index of 14, she would need to be admitted for treatment. At 3.30pm, there is still nothing from the clinic. Before we left TMC (after seeing gynae), I called the clinic and was shocked when they said the blood sample has just been send to the lab, and result will only be out in another hour!
So, we only received call from clinic after we reached home. The bilirubin index for Evelyn is 15.2, and she need to be admitted. We frecked out on the thought that we need to travel back to TMC. It had been really tiring to travel half of Singapore to Novena and Thomson.
Anyway, after much thought, we decided to checkout the treatment proceduce and room-in pricing with KKH. At KKH A&E, Evelyn was put through another blood test for bilirubin level. It was heart-wrenching to hear her cry. Surprisingly, result was out within 15mins, and we were told that her bilirubin level is not high enough to justify for her admission in KKH. After much clarification, we learnt that actually different hospitals have different admission criteria for jaundice treatment. So, we were sent home and told to observe her for a few more days. The doctor advised us that we should have blood test done at polyclinic before coming to hospital.
Anyway, thanks to god we can go home, and need to be hospitalized. We were really dead tired traveling to and fro hospitals, and mentally-stress up with Evelyn's condition.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

my name is ^_^ ~~

Finally, we've got a name for baby!
This is after we consulted a master and paid $198.

Ong Sze Ting Evelyn 王詩婷

Hopefully, her name will help to improve her life and supplement what she lack!

A new helper @ home ~~ hurray ~~

Finally, I get some time to surf! Our new confinement lady arrived last night. Ops, I can't remember what's her name! Anyway, I will just refer her as aunti till I can recall her name *paiseh to ask*

The neighbour confinement aunti left us on new year eve. She walked off with a dark face, saying that we have "shouted" at her. This all happened after I told her I need her help to tidy up my room (I haven't unpack my bags and gifts from friends since I returned from hospital), and mum told her those baby's clothes need re-washing as they still showing signs of detergent residues. Maybe I shall talk a little more about this neighbour.

After I mentioned that i will be doing full time breast feeding, she said she will not stayed in house with us. Having no experience with confinement, and not sure what to expect, we agreed to let her return home at night.

On the second day, she came to our house very late. I was pretty upset, since I have told her I need her help to "sun bath" baby @ around 8 to 9 (baby has jaundice). Yet she didnt appear till after 9. And she seem to rush through things which she need to do (ie. wash our clothes, bath baby, cook my lunch). And as expected, she left for home right after she cooked my lunch. While I was having lunch, baby cried, and I cant find anyone to help me other than my dad! It was really hectic!
Before she left, I've told her I am having massage @ around 3, so she need to come back in case baby need some attention. Yet she was no where in sign till dad went downstair to look for her. Similarly, after cooking my dinner, she went home by 5.30 and no where in sign till the next day (which is the new year eve - the day she left us). And BTW, the food she cooked is really tasteless.

Although her service is lousy, we thought we might as well tolerate till after CYN, but we didnt expect her to leave us on CYN eve.

The new aunti is directly an opposite of this neighbour. She is sensitive to my need, has initiative to tidy my room and the whole house without you tell her what she need to do, and most importantly she can interact with baby. (When the previous aunti tried to bath baby, baby was crying like there is no tomorrow). For such a pro service, we are definitely paying for a much higher price of $2700, and considering this is also last minute request. Anyway, today is just the second day we are having her around, so let's hope the standard will stay.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Another milestone reached!

Baby's umbilical cord stump has dropped off today. I was shocked when I saw it as I only expect it to be detacted a few days later. Prior to that, I was feeding her, and then noticed the detached cord when doing diaper change. Anyway, the fact is it has fallen off!

Picture? The blurred mum has lost it before she got a chance to picture of the stump.
*Post -natal life without confinement lady's help is very hectic*

Friday, January 23, 2009

Day 3: Hungry baby @ 3.30am

03:30: Nurse came in with baby saying that baby is hungry. Wasn't it less than 2 hr that we had the previous feed? While getting myself ready, I couldnt help thinking and feeling abit worried that I havnt really start giving her any milk (she was on colostrum all along).

And then I saw it, a small whitish dot. Is that MILK? With baby on my left arm, I tried to turn on the light using my other hand, but not successful. Took another look at that "dot", it was still whitish! Couldnt be wrong.

Finally, reached 4.15am. I broke the suction, and let her lie on my lap. She looks satisfied with her eyes closed! I pressed the call bell immediately, for the nurse to bring her back to the nursury, as my bladder is bursting!

Now slipping through my cup of milo after the toilet break, phew..

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Day 2: Family photo

Let's take a pics with mummy first!














Mummy, Baby and Daddy

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

**Hello Baby** 20-Jan-2009 @ 23:43

Finally, we get to see each other!
And you looked so much like your daddy...